tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595673948546369487.post3365563804786713600..comments2023-04-04T12:05:56.539-04:00Comments on Blah Blah Blogs: Do I have the balls to do it?kimberkarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09429679526955249898noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595673948546369487.post-41113484263216010932009-10-24T20:19:22.700-04:002009-10-24T20:19:22.700-04:00PS...there isnt ANYTHING wrong with anti-depressan...PS...there isnt ANYTHING wrong with anti-depressants...its the new "in" thing...lol...I dont mind announcing that Zoloft and Xanax work miracles for me...Welbutrin was great too!!Alisa Shambergerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01744164229935307941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595673948546369487.post-57349817517750011352009-10-24T20:17:51.204-04:002009-10-24T20:17:51.204-04:00I would rather be broke as a joke and happy stayin...I would rather be broke as a joke and happy staying home with my son than to go to work to bust my ass to get in the exact same financial situation. After having Jax, I have worked a total of 4 days, in that time, I learned that what it cost me to put him in daycare and how unhappy I was didnt pan out to the extra couple of hundred bucks that I would earn. <br /><br />I am confident that you would feel more appreciated as a SAHM, and you would learn or perfect things like double coupon day, and which stores have the best deals and when. <br /><br />Living next to your inlaws will be rough, thats for sure, but as long as you set boundries, it can be very beneficial for all of you...<br /><br />If your man is happy, and he can support you, do it. If nothing else, have One Way lay you off so you can collect unemployment for a while...they atleast owe you that. <br /><br />I am confident that you will LOOOOVEEE staying home with your girls, and it sounds like to me, everything all around will be better...Alisa Shambergerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01744164229935307941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595673948546369487.post-59297740310657307752009-10-23T14:20:06.899-04:002009-10-23T14:20:06.899-04:00Oh god NO - this is a house next door to his mothe...Oh god NO - this is a house next door to his mother. I would not consider living in the same house with his family. They are nice, but would drive me crazy in a day. This house is next door. That being said we would certainly see more of them than we do now. The down side of that is me being driven crazy and the possibility of them interfering in our lives too much, tho I will set boundaries. It seems like everyone uses antidepressants, but maybe because no one talks about it it seems like it should be a dirty secret.kimberkarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09429679526955249898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595673948546369487.post-69627142173136117392009-10-23T14:05:25.062-04:002009-10-23T14:05:25.062-04:00Oh, Kimmie, I so feel what you're going throug...Oh, Kimmie, I so feel what you're going through. Incidentally, my little sis just decided to move in with her man's family (she has a 6 yr old son) because she's in a similar situation. There's nothing wrong with making a choice to have a better life for you AND your family!!! How could that be bad?? Honey, why do you think I ended up in Baton Rouge?? My advice would be just have a plan. Like, a timeline. We're gonna live with Mark's mom for ___ months/years so you feel like you're not gonna get stuck and end up resenting everyone. Which can happen easily. <br /><br />I say, yep, you got the balls, bitch. Use em.<br /><br />and I take prozac, have for almost 10 years. There is NOTHING to be ashamed about with antidepressants. I always think of myself on drugs as the woman in that hair dye commercial: "It's me, only better!"<br /><br />Remember that one?<br /><br />xoKrissyfacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06401481344281782173noreply@blogger.com